You may have separated but your children and their needs require you to co-operate and maintain a relationship, albeit of a non romantic kind. Changing the nature of your relationship from that of a stressful and unfulfilling marriage to a practical friendship, based around the needs of your children, is a difficult transition. The tools and counseling we recommend that are listed below will empower you to make this transition successfully. If you would you like guidance in using this service, we recommend The Whole Person Handbook. If you would like to receive a weekly publication that has high quality articles relevant to this topic, please subscribe to our free eMagazine Cultivate Life! In addition, you can meet another with this life challenge in the Trans4mind Buddy Service.
We encourage you to explore our free services to help you have a satisfactory relationship with your divorced husband or wife, which are a good introduction, but to really make progress with this life challenge we encourage you to do the Nonviolent Communication training courses by Marshall Rosenberg. This is our top recommendation to help you make the best of differing points of view in a win-win way...
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Our top recommendation:
Revolutionize Your Conversations
and Your Relationships
For centuries our culture has taught us to think and speak in ways that can actually perpetuate conflict, internal pain and even violence. Nonviolent Communication partners practical skills with a powerful consciousness and vocabulary to help you get what you want peacefully.
What if you could defuse tension and create accord in even the most volatile situations - just by changing the way you spoke? Over the past 35 years, Marshall Rosenberg has done just that, peacefully resolving conflicts in families, schools, businesses, and governments in 30 countries on 5 continents. With Nonviolent Communication (NVC), this renowned peacemaker presents his complete system for speaking our deepest truths ... addressing our unrecognized needs and emotions ... and honoring those same concerns in others.
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We offer you a variety of approaches that will greatly assist your relationship with an ex-husband or wife. You are encouraged to choose those that you intuitively feel will work best...
- Previous Questions & Coaching - read questions that the Heart to Heart Coach has received that focus on this life challenge - and his replies, that will help you gain your own insights and understanding.
- Quick Coach articles - written by the community of experts who contribute to Trans4mind. There is much to learn from these articles, which have been hand picked to give different perspectives and helpful advice on this life challenge.
- Send Your New Question - if you are unable to gain the help and support you need from the services on this page, Maurice Turmel invites you to send him a question. If selected, he will reply to your question in our weekly ezine Cultivate Life! To see examples of how this service works, subscribe to Cultivate Life! here.
Relevant materials at Trans4mind:
The Seeds of Self-Knowledge eLibrary contains over 200 high quality personal development eBooks to download and read. To access the Library, please sign up below. The Library includes:
- Divorce Handbook - a guide to the best and most reliable online divorce information.
Personal Development Videos - a great selection of videos to view online now.
Video Coaching by Francisco Bujan: (e-book)
Courtesy of Graspr: How-to Videos
“When two people decide to get a divorce, it isn't a sign that they "don't understand" one another, but a sign that they have, at last, begun to.” —Helen Rowland
“Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.” —Barbara De Angelis
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Our Own Courses - with email support.
- Nonviolent Communication - What if you could defuse tension and create accord in even the most volatile situations - just by changing the way you spoke? Over the past 35 years, Marshall Rosenberg has done just that, peacefully resolving conflicts in families, schools, businesses, and governments in 30 countries on 5 continents. With Nonviolent Communication, this renowned peacemaker presents his complete system for speaking our deepest truths ... addressing our unrecognized needs and emotions ... and honoring those same concerns in others.
Chosen Products - recommended third-party programs.
Hypnosis Downloads:
These state-of-the-art sessions are available for you to use in the privacy of your own home and just a download away. Inexpensive, effective and... they just work great!
Selected Printed Books - nothing like a great new book to delve into!
Selected AudioBooks from Learn Out Loud - your one-stop destination for audio and video learning.
- The Breakup Bible by Daphne Rose Kingma - why we fall in and out of love, and why this painful process is not only natural but essential if we are to find true love.
- Relationships as Mirrors by Shakti Gawain - what makes relationships function, and what we can learn about ourselves from all our associations with others.
- Coping With Difficult and Negative People by Effective Learning Systems - such people will no longer have a negative influence on you.
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