Are you in a relationship where one of you has changed and adopted different values from their partner? Such a change while dating, or within marriage, brings about new challenges for both partners. The tools and counseling listed below, that we recommend, will give you the awareness to nurture a successful but changed relationship, or to have the confidence to let the relationship go and begin again. If you would you like guidance in using this service, we recommend The Whole Person Handbook. If you would like to receive a weekly publication that has high quality articles relevant to this topic, please subscribe to our free eMagazine Cultivate Life! In addition, you can meet another with this life challenge in the Trans4mind Buddy Service.
We encourage you to explore our free services to help you succeed in a relationship where your partner has different values, which are a good introduction, but to really make progress with this life challenge we encourage you to do the Nonviolent Communication training courses by Marshall Rosenberg. This is our top recommendation to help make the best of differing views in a win-win way...
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Our top recommendation:
Revolutionize Your Conversations
and Your Relationships
For centuries our culture has taught us to think and speak in ways that can actually perpetuate conflict, internal pain and even violence. Nonviolent Communication partners practical skills with a powerful consciousness and vocabulary to help you get what you want peacefully.
What if you could defuse tension and create accord in even the most volatile situations - just by changing the way you spoke? Over the past 35 years, Marshall Rosenberg has done just that, peacefully resolving conflicts in families, schools, businesses, and governments in 30 countries on 5 continents. With Nonviolent Communication (NVC), this renowned peacemaker presents his complete system for speaking our deepest truths ... addressing our unrecognized needs and emotions ... and honoring those same concerns in others.
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We offer you a variety of approaches that will greatly assist you to succeed in a relationship where your partner has different values. You are encouraged to choose those that you intuitively feel will work best...
- Previous Questions & Coaching - read questions that the Heart to Heart Coach has received that focus on this life challenge - and his replies, that will help you gain your own insights and understanding.
- Quick Coach articles - written by the community of experts who contribute to Trans4mind. There is much to learn from these articles, which have been hand picked to give different perspectives and helpful advice on this life challenge.
- Send Your New Question - if you are unable to gain the help and support you need from the services on this page, Maurice Turmel invites you to send him a question. If selected, he will reply to your question in our weekly ezine Cultivate Life! To see examples of how this service works, subscribe to Cultivate Life! here.
A brilliant free resource:
- How to Create a Great Relationship - you are invited to receive a free 80 minute DVD filled with fascinating and unique information about relationships. Click on the "Free Introductory DVD" link at this Voice Dialogue site.
Relevant materials at Trans4mind:
The Seeds of Self-Knowledge eLibrary contains over 200 high quality personal development eBooks to download and read. To access the Library, please sign up below. The Library includes:
Personal Development Videos - a great selection of videos to view online now.
“Let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your
souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same
loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one
of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they
quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's
keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's
shadow.” —Kahlil Gibran
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Our Own Courses - with email support.
- The Mind Development Course, Effective Communication teaches powerful communication skills that enable you to be more effective at home and work and in all of those situations of everyday life where better relationships can make all the difference.
Chosen Products - recommended third-party programs.
- Nonviolent Communication - What if you could defuse tension and create accord in even the most volatile situations - just by changing the way you spoke? Over the past 35 years, Marshall Rosenberg has done just that, peacefully resolving conflicts in families, schools, businesses, and governments in 30 countries on 5 continents. With Nonviolent Communication, this renowned peacemaker presents his complete system for speaking our deepest truths ... addressing our unrecognized needs and emotions ... and honoring those same concerns in others.
- The Us Factor™ - Would you like more understanding, respect and attention from your partner? This DVD program by renowned therapist Dr. Joseph Melnick is designed to give couples the skills they need to resolve conflict effectively and grow closer, all in the privacy of their own home. The program offers unique, practical ways for couples to manage differences about sex, money, parenting, work schedules, commitment, lack of communication and more.
Selected Printed Books - nothing like a great new book to delve into!
- Daring to be Yourself by Peter Shepherd - like a "best of" Trans4mind - that you can read away from the computer! But much more than that, it's also an incredibly powerful program for personal growth. Remove the barriers to self-knowledge and reveal your full potential with this step-by-step approach.
- Unfold Your Wings by Wallace Huey - this beautiful and profound book empowers you to learn from setbacks and move forward, increase creativity, understand relationships, heal emotional pain and find your life's purpose.
- If We're So in Love, Why Aren't We Happy? by Susan Page - teaches 'spiritual partnership,' allowing you to outgrow problems in your relationship.
- What He Can't Tell You...and Needs to Say by Brenda Shoshanna - you will learn techniques for opening up the lines of communication so you won't have to wonder any more.
- How to Break Your Addiction to a Person by Howard Halpern - how to know when to call it quits...and how to find the courage to call it quits.
Selected AudioBooks from Learn Out Loud - your one-stop destination for audio and video learning.
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