Coach Yourself to Success: Healing Yourself

Answers to Questions submitted to Wallace Huey
through the Public Coaching service
and published in the Metamorphosis magazine

A. HEALING YOURSELF:

Healing and helping yourself

I have a belief that I need to keep talking about myself and now I scare people - help me.
I would like to settle down and meet someone nice, but my heart has been broken and I lack confidence in relationships with men – can you help me?
After suffering eating disorders and severe depression I now feel unmotivated and disconnected from people who love me - what's wrong with me?
Twelve years ago I was dumped by a woman and I still dream of her – how do I let go?
I have everything one could ask for so why do I feel something is missing in my life?
What is the defining factor that empowers us to experience the state of Being Fully Awake?
Finding your healing path

My need to be admired is preventing me from participating in groups - how can I get rid of this need to be admired?
I suffer from anorexia and bulimia. I feel hopeless, am distancing myself from people and sometimes feel like I can't go on - help me
How can I find the healing path and follow it one day at a time?
I have tried all kinds of self-help for my fear and anxiety and it hasn't worked - help me.
I've been successfully working on my own healing for 20 years, now I'm in limbo - help me
How can I let people come to me rather than me always going to them?
Letting go of anger and frustration

I have great hopes and anticipation but it only ends in frustration - is it better to be in the now?
After stopping smoking I no longer know how to deal with my anger - what can I do?
My husband was abusive toward me and now I am full of anger, resentment and hate - how can I get rid of these feelings?
Going beyond fear and anxiety

How can I overcome extreme doubts and feeling inadequate and move forward in my endeavors?
How can I shift the fear of other people's negative judgments when at work?
How can I learn to trust and heal my fear of intimacy with my husband? I think I need to forgive my parents for my difficult upbringing.
My life is being stunted by fear of heights and enclosed spaces and fear of hot and cold weather - how can I go beyond these fears?
Although I love the course I feel overwhelmed by my studies - I may be still afraid of my ex-husband's judgments. How can I get focused on my studies?
I'm struggling to get a job and the bills are coming in - help keep me from worrying and getting stressed.
Going beyond addictive behavior

I abuse alcohol - not every day, but when socially involved – advice please.
I'm a couch potato addicted to self-help - help me out of this rut
I am lost in the world of drug addiction – can you give me words of encouragement and healing?
Understanding your sexual feelings and inclinations

I have been sexually molested and I think I may be homosexual. I fear that I may be left alone without companionship - Can you help me?
It feels like our marriage is breaking up and I am now finding my wife physically unattractive - is there something wrong with me?
I am all caught up in my mind, my emotions and my sexual feelings - How can I free myself from these and increase my will power for spiritual life?
My husband is into porn and I feel cheated - please help.
Coping with and learning from a major loss in your life

After a series of losses I feel very drained and feel as if I have lost the light - please help me.
After losing my marriage, 6 children and my unborn child everyone abandoned me. Now I feel disconnected from life and from people - please help.
After being defeated by powerful vested interests in a cause that was just, I am now depressed and directionless - help me recover.
I have an acquired disability, have no purpose in life and poor relationships with family and friends - how can I be more positive and think better thoughts?
What can I do about my feelings of loss, sadness and grief?
Help me to recover from a life that has "crashed and burned"
How can I adjust to a disabling condition?
How can I come to terms with my acquired disability and move on?
After a lot of misfortune, how can I get a foothold to start again?
How do I remain open and free of the build up of sludge that life can sometimes throw at me?

~ Coping with and learning from a major loss in your life ~

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I sense future circumstances and know when something is wrong. This "skill" is making me ill - please help.
After harrowing life events I feel very stressed and am experiencing unusual psychic experiences - What can I do about this?

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