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Hi Ayal,

Greetings! I discovered your website very recently, and I find myself, very often portrayed in the questions and answers. I have been growing for the past 10 years, and your website reinforced and introduced new concepts. And so, I thank you...

My question is part health related and part vanity related... I have noticed a crease in my facial skin, above the traditional smile line... Also, I am finding myself susceptible to pollen allergies, with swelling underneath my eyes...

How can I take a positive and healing approach (nutrition, sleep and/or beliefs)... as what we focus on persists... I am trying to look at this with curiosity and not negativity, and yet I am afraid to look in the mirror...

I am a single, 36 year old woman who, I admit, is wondering about if, when, etc. I can commit to marriage. I recognize that I have met quality men, and have been doing inner work... and yet...

I wonder if my physical symptoms are related... Thank you in advance for your time.

Hi - the new line in your face has to do with being willing to let go of old hurts and forgive. Perhaps this is also why you have not yet allowed yourself to have a fulfilling relationship.

I'd do some inner work with the 2nd chakra. You can read about it in Caroline Myss's Anatomy of the Spirit, and also there is an article on chakras found in a list of articles at the end of the home page on this site. The 2nd chakra has to do with the giving and receiving of physical, mental, and emotional pleasure. If this chakra is blocked, then there are some issues to deal with regarding how safe you feel doing this giving and receiving.

The olive green Aura-Soma pomander for courage and positive thinking would be good for you to use. You can order it as Also, the number 2, deep blue essential oil, the Mother Mary essence, for deep peace, would be very beneficial for you to use.

Blessings, Ayal

271. "I feel very insecure when my fianc is looking at other women"

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