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What Women Want From Men, Whether Dating Or Married. Tip #36

By Willie Jones

Men, If You Want Brownie Points"Send Her Flowers and Trinkets!

Ok, ok! So you've heard that line before. But you may not understand why after all this time that it still works! Well, in the next few minutes prepare to get an insight into the mysterious women's world.

Here are some very basic things you should know:

1) Women (generally speaking) are the softer side of the human race. We have softer bodies, soft demeanor (usually) and instinctively want to nurture and care for our fellow man. And men".women really do want to take care of you! Men on the other hand, want to conquer and procreate. Testosterone kicks in and men on a regular basis blunder along and just by the look on a women's face they know they are in trouble. And why?

2) WOMEN SEE EVERYTHING!!! Never underestimate a woman's instinct. Women generally can be more intuitive than a man simply because we"ve been trained over thousands of years to have that watch-full eye over the children and loved ones. We must see what the children are doing and scope for hidden dangers nearby constantly! That's why moms know the hand is in the cookie jar and she's not even looking directly at you! Have you ever noticed a woman looking at you and you feel like she is reading your mind? Well essentially she is. She knows what that twitch of the eyebrows means and the eyes tell a whole story.

Here is a tip for you men. Don't wait until you are in trouble to do something nice for a woman. Believe me, it goes so much farther if you buy her flowers for no reason. Women are also attracted to the pretty things like shiny jewelry. You can hardly go wrong doing either. Unless a woman is seriously not interested in you, it is likely that you will see her melt right before your eyes if you present her with something of beauty. Women are sappy that way.

This is especially true for a long-term relationship because this tells her you are still creating something wonderful and appreciate her.

Here is something you may not have thought of, and that is, when you buy a woman flowers and send it to her place of business, you, will be the one well thought of! The number of times I have heard other women oooh and ahhh over someone getting flowers at work and say: "you're so lucky to have to have a husband/boyfriend who will send you flowers"! "I wish my husband would do that"!

Then you do the magic thing and send her flowers twice in a month! Your status among the other women has just soared and you are viewed as a rare breed of men. Heavy sigh! (More sappiness)

Most women just plain love getting flowers and trinkets period! Will it ever go out of style? I think not. This is a long-standing tried and true formula that works and I think will still work in the future.

About The Author

Willie Jones is a freelance writer, researcher, artist and floral designer. She also promotes Motivational Posters at "Enroll in the free motivational poster drawing. All winners receive a free framed print.


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