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Fantasies: The Sexual Enhancers

One of the most exciting and safest forms of sexual pleasures is sexual fantasies. Studies show that women and men alike fantasize before, during and after sex. There are many interesting ways to add a little excitement, to your weekly sex life. Fantasies are a very normal form of sexual expression, and especially in women who often fantasize to help them orgasm during masturbation.

During intercourse, fantasies are a normal way of enhancing your enjoyment of sex. However, most believe that thinking of a fantasy during sex means that there is usually something wrong with your sexual partner. Having to fantasize about something else in order to achieve sexual bliss makes your partner feel as if they are deceiving their partner. Of course, this is not a healthy relationship, but using fantasies in a healthy relationship will help enhance and increase the sexual output of relationship, and make your lovemaking much more enjoyable.

Some of the most common fantasies are not what you may think. Fantasies are not just conjuring up some role playing adventure to act out with your partner. Most fantasies are conjured up in the mind, and are usually involving their partner. Most women fantasize about a past sexual encounter with their partner. Having that vision in their mind, can help them to achieve a great more powerful orgasm during sex. You can say it preps them before the game, and it helps relieve some of the pressures that a man might have in order help his partner orgasm.

Using sex toys and other sexual enhancers, while fantasizing about their partners, is the most common form of masturbation with most women. Of course, sex toys do not offer the same fulfillment that there partner might expect, sexual enhancers are a great tool for women to learn what makes there sexual juices flow, and coupled with a fantasy or two, can help make them reach orgasm that much more quickly. A study showed that most women need at least 20-30 minutes of some sort of sexual interaction to be able to orgasm, while it takes men roughly 5-10 minutes. So why not take that 10-15 minute difference and make a fantasy become a reality, so both you and your partner can reach sexual fulfillment at the same time, and enjoy it together.

Wither or not, you use fantasies to help enhance your lovemaking, use it to spice up the lovemaking you already have, or make it apart of your self gratification. Fantasies can be a great enhancer to your sex life. You don't have to act out your fantasies in order to enjoy them, but if you ever think about acting out a fantasy that you and your partner might have, believe me it may be the best sex that you would ever have. Role playing can easily electrify a lovemaking night, and put you and your partner in a place and time that is unique to each other.


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