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This World Is Being Ran by a Penis and Vagina

By Rose DesRochers

Just because you might have a penis or a vagina it does not necessarily make you a man or woman. If we look at the elements and the health side of it sure it does. It would be quite logic, that these two parts of the male or female ataman are what makes up our sex. However the saying comes into play that anyone can have a child but it does not necessarily make them a parent. So I'll say just because you are a man born with a penis or a woman born with a vagina it does not make you a man and woman.

I grew up with pretty good values I think. My father was a man who worked hard to provide for the family. He did not believe in waste not. My mother was a woman who would wash those margarine containers. To use them for left over and my father at Christmas got satisfaction in receiving underwear and socks.

He would always sit in the living room and watch each one of us open our gifts before he would open his. I often wonder why he did that. I think it was just his values and he was the man of the house so he went last. Don't get me wrong, I did not grow up in the perfect house and we had our share of problems like every house hold. But my father never lifted a hand to my mom in all of their years of marriage and he provided for her and the family.

In the year of the 80's growing up it was not taboo if a woman wanted to stay at home and bring up her kids and I never heard my father ever once mention it was not a job. Was she always happy?No! I think my parents got comfortable in their surrounding because they had made a vow. I see so many people quick to toss in a towel. Were living in a world where men and women are trading partners, purchasing a car they can't afford and the intimacy of love making and physical touch has been replaced with I'm rubbing my keyboard are you stroking your mouse.

What has the world turn to? Many want everything for nothing. They feel it's owed to them. They soon go out to dinner because they think they are getting a free meal and they are so ignorant not to mention of ever going Dutch. Women are put on show. Movies, commercials, advertising all pertain to sex and sex is what sells.

Now I'm a free thinking woman and I'm all for freedom. I supported the gay marriage movement and all of those things. But I have to say we are slowly losing our family unit. I know families are made up of not just the perfect man, woman and child and I support that too.

I see parents not proud of their children.There are children that are now young adults and they have never felt the love of a father, nor mother. They have turned away from God and the church.They have built walls around themselves. No wonder the populations of depressed people are on the slow and steady climb.

We have a government that does not want to protect the child, we give the young generation stars like Britney spears and tell them it is ok to have sex at 14 and dressing sexy is what you need to do to make it to the top. Just don't get caught like Monica did, giving favors to a man in power.

Such an obstacle person I am and I'll go back to my original statements just because you have a penis and a vagina it does not make you a woman nor a man. High time we got back to some kind of family unite and looked at the eyes that are watching us. What lessons are we teaching them? Keep going like this by the year 2045 we will be lucky if a person makes it to age 25. It is time we became Men and Women.

God I don't know if you're listening,but if you are please do something and do it quick. Because this world is being ran by a penis and vagina.

About The Author

Rose is a published author from Canada Ontario and is also the founder of a community for men and women over 18, where writers/poets/columnists meet and exchange ideas, contest, rate and review and help each other succeed in the writing industry. Check out Rose's first poetry book "She is like the wind " here and purchase poetry that is sure to be a world of emotion on a canvas that is her soul.


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