By Lynne Kaska
It is my experience that we have many choices in life. We are not victims of circumstance. However, we are victims of our own misery. We choose whether or not we are happy.
Most of my life was consumed with resentment, fear, worry and anxiety. It controlled every aspect of my life. In coaching people in their personal lives, I have found that I am not alone. In fact most people are consumed with some negative feeling.
I couldn't seem to sort out why I could never be happy in my life. It was always about what everyone else did to me. I refused to see that I was not always the victim. At some point, I had to break down and begin to take responsibility for my actions.
It was when I began to look realistically at my part, that I finally saw that I had choices. I could choose to be happy or I could choose not to. I could choose to stay bitter and angry or I could choose to let go. I could choose to stay consumed or I could choose not to.
I encourage you to begin choosing happiness in you life. You have the power to be truly happy in your life.
About The Author
My name is Lynne Kaska and I am the founder of Visionary Coaching, a career and mentor coaching company. We began in Garland, Texas in 2004, and currently we have coaches and clients around the country and are expanding into Canada. We work with vice presidents, managers and other executives, who are overloaded or may be facing career burn out. We also work with individuals who are facing big life transitions.