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Is Helping Others The Best Way To Help Oneself?

By Arthur Buchanan

It is my belief that in our process of building The Perfect you, you will also want to help others when you reach a certain point. You will find that when you help others get what they want you will in turn get what you want. You may be saying to yourself I am only one person and that s OK. You can help others by showing them how to build their perfect you, and you can never know the impact that person may have on the world.

They could help numerous others by helping them see that they can also build their perfect you and this will have the domino effect. While you are helping others you are going to learn the principles that will get you to the next level and that is a win-win situation for everyone. Now do you see how helping others is the best Way to help oneself?

When you reach down to help others out the chances are that somebody is going to reach down and help you yourself and you will see that this is one big circle. When they see you helping others, they are going to be more apt to turn around and help you get to where you want to go and this is very true.

Therefore, when you get to where you want to be and you feel comfortable there, than start to look around and see whom you can help up and assist them in building their perfect you. We all have a perfect you inside of us, learning how to drawl it out is the hard part, but once you learn how to do so your future will truly be unlimited and the number of people you can reach will be staggering.

Along the Way, there are going to be bumps bruises and that's OK because it will be these bumps and bruises that will help you reach the next level and this in turn enables you to reach that many more people. The speed bumps of life are learning grounds and they shall be treated as such, it is because of these speed bumps that you are now in the process of building a perfect you that you know you can be.

So do not let the speed bumps get you down, as they are just part of life, and it really is a part that you do not want to avoid. These changes will in turn assist you in reaching others. That should excite you to no end, as this proves that helping others is truly the best way to help oneself and this is true and shall always be the same no matter what way you slice it. So are you ready to help yourself because when you do you are putting your self in a position to help others and when you do this you are surely going to help yourself and that should excite you.

If you are happy with the perfect you that you have built and you have no desire to help others that is OK also, as you can just stay where you are at and you can be thankful that you have built The Perfect you that you are satisfied with. No one can take away from you because you did it with your own two hands. So if you are satisfied with where you are at, then don't let it get you down that you don't want to help others because ifs OK that you don't want to help others, if thats your choice that is ok to, there are no wrong answers.

You are your own person and you answer to only you. So just build The Perfect You and be satisfied with where you're at and how far you've come and how far you're going to go, but please let me tell you helping others is very fulfilling and rewarding and there is no feeling like it in the world. It can help you become a better person and get things out of life that you desire the action of interest in anybody shall be rewarded.

At times, we will wonder if it is truly what is best for us and what we really desire. So please take a minute and help others because helping others is the best way to help yourself and this is a simple and true statement!

That is another law of the universe and if you apply this in your life you'll be surprised at how far you can go and what you can do, and that there are no limits on yourself now that you have set yourself up for success. So help others will in turn help yourself that is what you really want to do trust me it is a good place to start!

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