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Dating and The Holidays

During the holiday season you can really feel lonely if your single. Things get even worse if your family members start asking you where your date is. So what are you going to do about it this year? I'll tell you what your going to do! Your going to find yourself a date!

First lets take one step back before you start looking for a date. Let me get this out of the way. Being single isn't really all that bad. I mean it certainly can be bad, but it does have its advantages. But nobody really likes being alone for the holidays. So if your down follow some of these tips.

Ok what you need to do is find out what your doing wrong when it comes to finding a partner. Consider stuff such as where you go out to meet people, when you go out, who you go out with, what is wrong with your personality, then try and improve these things. Those list of questions aren't complete there just examples of what you should be asking yourself.

The next thing on your list is to come up with a list of things that you like doing and things that describe yourself. For example are you lazy, do you watch allot of TV, is your house messy, what type of sports and activities do you play and the list can go on from there. The whole idea behind this is to find and learn more about yourself. This might sound crazy but its important.

Once you have those things taken care of you need to come up with a list of characteristics that your looking for in a partner. You should make this list extensive. Include even small details like hair colour. Although most of these little things don't really matter, its just a good way for your to know what you would like in a partner.

The last thing you need to do is find yourself a date. Based upon the list of things that you have went through above you should have a good idea of what type of person your looking for in a partner. By knowing what you want out of a partner you will have greater success in your relationships and know where to find them.

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