1. Take Excellent Care of Yourself
Not only does extreme self-care help you look and feel great but it keeps you from entering a relationship on the basis of unmet needs. When you take wonderful care of yourself you will attract those who also take great care of themselves.

2. Know What You Want
Take time to think about what you want in a relationship. What qualities are you looking for? Be brutally honest and don't leave something off the list because you think you are being too picky! When you have a final list read it out loud to yourself on a daily basis until it becomes part of you. Amazing how you attract what you focus on!

3. Be What You Want
Oh boy, this is the tough part! Look at the list of qualities you want in a partner and ask if you have these qualities. If you are looking for someone who is financially secure, are you in financially good shape? We attract people with many of our same qualities.

4. Live the Life You Want
Don't wait to be in a relationship before you live the life you desire! Stop making excuses about why you can't live your ideal life now. Take the vacation you've longed for! Buy the house of your dreams now! Nothing is more attractive than a happy, fulfilled person!

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