Sexuality & Relationships

"The Book of Love: Awaken Your Passion To Be Your Higher Self" by Karen Bentley. The Book of Love teaches a spiritual perspective of love rather than a romantic perception of love. However, what you learn will help to bring more harmony, tolerance, kindness, and joy to all your relationships with others. It's not possible to read The Book of Love and be untouched by it.
"Perfect Love" by Brad and Jan Lundy. Perfect Love, a breakthrough in relationships thinking, uncovers a profound secret of lasting romance in today's new consciousness. Like all great discoveries, this one seems stunningly obvious once someone points it out. By seeing and appreciating the spiritual essence of your partner, your entire relationship is raised to a higher level, one where true romance becomes a living reality. This landmark book is filled with brilliant insights which show you exactly how, once and for all, to bring the joy of deep romance into your own life.
"52 weeks of Pationate Sex" by Melanie Votaw. Everything is new and unfamiliar between two people in the beginning. The mystery and the anticipation create a palpable electricity, and the passion is anything but work. Most couples complain that the passion burns out, however, and sex becomes boring over time. Well, it need not be! You can create anticipation and maintain electricity between you even after 50 years of marriage through sexual inventiveness, the element of surprise, and a commitment to emotional and physical intimacy. Passion need not be lost when two people are dedicated to keeping it alive and learning all they can about how to do so. Melanie Votaw describes how with a recipe for ecstacy each week of the year.
"Sex, Ecology, Spirituality: The Spirit of Evolution" by Ken Wilber. One of the great thinkers of our time brings together sex and gender issues, ecological wisdom, and spirituality into a coherent vision for our times. In a tour de force of scholarship and vision, Ken Wilber traces the course of evolution from matter to life to mind, answering the critical question: Can spiritual concerns be integrated with the modern world? (Or from Amazon-UK.)
"The Mastery of Love" by Miguel Ruiz. Don Miguel teaches through parable and direct suggestion the transforming power of self-love. He says that all relationships start with you, and how you feel about yourself. This is a book you can finish in an afternoon sitting, yet it's simple truths have the potential to alter profoundly how you view loving relationships as well as your relationship with yourself.
"How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know" by Lou Paget. Millions of men out there are looking for the real scoop on what women like, and want to learn how to really "rub them the right way," but are either afraid to ask or don't know where to look. And millions of women are looking for ways to tell men what really turns them on, but don't know how to put their desires into words.
"How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-To-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques That Will Blow His Mind" by Lou Paget. No matter what age we are or how much experience we have, we all want to be great lovers. Most of the sex guides for women, however, have been prudish, esoteric, or incomplete. However, Lou Paget gives you the down and dirty details that you really want to know on exactly what men like and why, and shares the proven erotic techniques that make for incredible sex you'll both enjoy.

Learn How to Attract Your True Match

The words you use and the thoughts you have map out the course of your life, including the relationships you find yourself attracting into your life.† Can you look back at some of your most significant relationships and see patterns?† Many times we attract the same "type" of person over and over again because of our unconscious need to work out past emotional issues.

As a result, the individuals drawn into your life are a direct result of the energy you send out into the world.† The key is to become conscious of the lessons and messages each person is trying to teach so you can move forward from that stage.† Placing blame on others only sets the stage for that "type" of individual to reappear until you acknowledge the life lesson.† So, as a result, all barriers to real, lasting love are self-made.† Powerful realization, isn't it?

If you have had problems with attracting a loving relationship that lasts, Nancy Pina's book "The Right Relationship Can Happen:†How To Create Relationship Success" offers a step-by-step guide that prepares you to attract the right partner into your life. Lots of valuable info drawn from the book is on Nancy's site...†

Relationship Advice for Singles

"If We're So in Love, Why Aren't We Happy?" by Susan Page. Instead of working on solving problems in your relationship, Susan Page teaches 'spiritual partnership,' allowing you to outgrow these problems. Focus on behaving in a spiritual way yourself, rather than fixing your relationship or your partner, and you and your partner will be happier and your relationship will be stronger.
"What He Can't Tell You...and Needs to Say" by Brenda Shoshanna. The common myth is that men don't like to talk. The truth is they don't know how. They've been conditioned to leave the emotions to women. As a result, every father, son, husband, brother, and boyfriend has had something to get off his chest for years. Dr. Shoshanna has persuaded a wide range of men from all walks of life to open up and speak their minds. You will learn techniques for opening up the lines of communication so you won't have to wonder any more.
"Great American Sex Diet" by Laura Corn. Laura invited thirty-eight couples to test her new recipes: ideas to spice up one's sex life. Most confessed that sex was now infrequent and predictable. They seduced each other. They surprised each other. They courted each other. And the sex they had was more incredible, wonderful, and breathtaking than they'd had in years. Men and women felt better, they listened more, they treated each other with tenderness and respect. In short, they fell in love all over again. (Or from Amazon-UK.)

Fit for Love – find your self and your perfect mate

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is a practical, metaphysical guide to discovering, healing and empowering yourself – while enhancing an existing relationship or creating the ideal partner, job or whatever else you might want. It is based on techniques that Olga Sheean developed in her private practice as a relationship coach and therapist. These techniques work for everyone and they produce positive results in one’s health, career, finances and self-image, as well as in relationships.

The book makes a lovely gift or coffee table book, although I’d highly recommend that you do read it as well! It has been illustrated in full color and has lots of exercises, boxes, pullquotes and tips that make it a joy to read as well as making it very practical.

It’s a valuable book for everyone, so if you’re interested, or if you know of a friend or family member who might welcome some significant help in their lives, the book can be ordered online via Olga’s website.

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